My Christmas Wish For You

Merry Christmas from George!
I would like to take this opportunity to thank my family, friends and clients and all of my online acquaintances for their support and encouragement this year because without you, I would never have created Scully Love Promo or experienced the joy or the lessons that come from promoting wonderfully talented authors and musicians on the Internet. Thank you to everyone who has subscribed to my blog on this website too; you are appreciated!

I spent the past year back in college, after 25 years away, in order to get a piece of paper that I seemed to need in order to get a decent job in Kingston, even though I had almost 25 years of administrative office experience. Thankfully, with my new Medical Office Administration Diploma (Honours) in hand, I landed a very good part-time job in September at Queen’s University in the Department of Pediatrics, Division of Medical Genetics, and work for two of the nicest, coolest, young clinical geneticists you could ever hope to meet. I am so fortunate to work with all the great people who run Medical Genetics at 20 Barrie Street and pray for a lengthy association with everyone there.

I know that for many of you, 2009 was a veritable shit storm. I personally know quite a few people who struggled with depression, personal loss and illness this past year and to you, I want to say 2010 WILL be better! It will be our year to celebrate the gods and goddesses within us. Sometimes life throws way too much crap at us and I hope that over the holidays we can take the time to reflect and to give thanks for the things in our life that are indeed positive. I know that it’s time for me to re-read The Secret and to reinforce the rules that apply to the Law of Attraction in my own life, and maybe you will too. We deserve to be happy and I truly believe that the Universe wants us to be happy. We just have to focus on the positive, live in the present moment, and be grateful for the little things of beauty that surround us and that we can see if we just take the time to look.

To my single women friends, my wish for us is that we finally meet the perfect person to share our lives with in 2010. There is no doubt about the fact that when we are in love, the whole world looks beautiful, and the hope and faith in our hearts shines as bright as the Star of Bethlehem. In the meantime, I pass along this Christmas wish from the divine George Clooney and hope that wherever you are, you are smiling.

Love & light,
Christine xox

Daisy Dooley Does Divorce by Anna Pasternak

Book Review
Title: Daisy Dooley Does Divorce
Author: Anna Pasternak
Publisher: 5 Spot
Released: 2007
Pages: 368
ISBN-10: 0446177946
ISBN-13: 978-0446177948
Stars: 4.5

Saturday, February 2, 2008 at 10:55am (Facebook)

This is the book I’m reading at the moment…snug in my bed under my brand new duvet where I can totally ignore the horrendous winter that’s waiting outside along with an hour’s worth of snow shoveling!

Daisy Dooley Does Divorce is a humorous and heartfelt romp through 39-year-old Brit, Daisy Dooley’s divorce and her consequent quest to understand men, relationships, and most importantly herself and the decisions she makes. It’s a Bridget Jones’s Diary for divorcees and an easy, charming and highly enjoyable read. It is laugh out loud funny, often thought-provokingly poignant and Daisy’s penchant for spiritual/self-help books makes her a kindred spirit. You will love this heartwarming, easy-to-read-in-a-few-sittings book about friendship and daring to realize one’s dreams, even if you’re not divorced or have never been married. Anyone who has been disappointed at some point in her life by love will find so much in common with delightful Daisy. She’s full of spirit, sass and sensitivity and if she were a real person I would want to be her friend.

This particular nugget of wisdom struck me this morning when I read it…

It was true – my heart was like Miles’s shelves, gnawed and splintered with emotional woodworm. I read on: “The difference between a little life and a big life is trust. Trust is the midwife of a big life. People only choose little lives because they don’t trust and they want to control.” That’s the most difficult thing in life, I thought, getting the balance right between not giving up on your dreams and yet having enough faith in their fruition to let them go.

This paragraph rings so true to me as I struggle every day of my life with climbing the mountain of adversity (the mountain that I know is largely self-made) and self-doubt, all the while wondering if I even believe in true love anymore, let alone have the faith that it will find me some day. I have to be willing to be open to it, to trust that it exists and that eventually there will be a man out there who won’t lie to me, use me, play me for the fool, trod all over my broken heart and leave me to reinforce my bitter, cynical, untrusting view of men. They can’t all be utter heartless, cruel, dishonest cads, can they? Now if I could just believe that and hold it as truth in my heart, I might have a fighting chance of actually attracting the right one. Must focus on The Law of Attraction and believe that I deserve the love of a truly good man! If I believe he’s out there, he will be and he will find me.

Discovering the novel Daisy Dooley Does Divorce by Anna Pasternak was the biggest joy I had in reading in 2008. The book was based on Anna’s weekly column of the same name in the London Daily Mail (it has since been retired). Anna’s honesty as a writer, the depth of her characters and her fantastic wit quickly made her a new favourite author and any woman who enjoys chick/wit lit or romance and relationships between women will undoubtedly love this book.

This is the review that changed my life.

It began with my becoming acquainted with a lovely, intelligent woman named Paige O’Neill who is the person who looks after The Waterboys’ online presence on numerous social networking websites. Paige and I connected in 2006 when I sent Mike Scott of The Waterboys a personal letter about a sick friend of mine who was a huge fan (as am I). We became good friends online and in the past three years she has become a soul sister of immense importance in my life, even though I have never met her in person.

Paige looks after the maintenance of Daisy Dooley’s MySpace profile for Anna Pasternak and in March 2008, after reading my review of the book, and with Paige’s recommendation, Anna asked me to help her maintain a Facebook fan page and group for Daisy Dooley. I was honoured to do it and I even got paid for it.

Since then, and as a result of Paige and Anna’s unfailing support and encouragement, I formed my own business, Scully Love Promo, promoting authors & musicians using the major social networking websites on the internet. Over the past year and a half, I have worked for at least 10 different talented artists and although this is only a part-time endeavor for me at this time, I believe there is a good chance that it could one day become my full-time job. And I love it! I love spreading the love about artists that I respect and admire. I’ve done this naturally for many years through my review writing and in every day conversation with friends. However, now I get paid to do it, and I owe that privilege to Paige O’Neill and Anna Pasternak, who are the most amazingly resilient, spiritual, intelligent, and loving women and friends that anyone could hope to have.

Above all else, that is why I continue to recommend this delightful book, Daisy Dooley Does Divorce by Anna Pasternak (available through 5 Spot, a division of Hachette Books, Grand Central’s trade paperback imprint featuring fresh, original voices in women’s fiction and nonfiction).